Purim Traditions You Can Start Today

Ready for Purim? This guide breaks down the most popular customs so you can join the fun without stress. From costumes to food, every tradition has a simple step you can follow.

Read the Megillah and Make Noise

The Megillah, or Book of Esther, is read twice—once on the evening of Purim and again the next morning. When the name Haman is mentioned, everyone shouts “Booyah!” and uses a gragger (a noisemaker) to drown out his name. If you’re new to this, just bring a small plastic gragger or a rolled‑up paper—any sound will do. Listening to the story reminds us why the holiday matters and gets the crowd in a lively mood.

Give Mishloach Manot and Tzedakah

One of the sweetest parts of Purim is sending mishloach manot—gift baskets of food to friends and family. The rule is simple: at least two different ready‑to‑eat items, enough for one person, and a kosher envelope for a donation. Pack things like fruit, nuts, chocolate, or a small bottle of juice. Hand‑deliver them, or drop them at a neighbor’s door; the surprise is what makes it fun.

Another key custom is tzedakah, giving to those in need. Donate a modest amount to a charity or provide a free meal to someone who can’t afford the festive foods. Even a small contribution counts and keeps the spirit of generosity alive.

Dress Up and Enjoy the Festive Meals

Purim is the only Jewish holiday where wearing costumes is not just allowed—it’s expected. Pick a theme you love—superhero, historical figure, or a funny pun costume. Even a simple mask and colorful hat work. The goal is to bring joy and remind everyone that the holiday celebrates a hidden miracle.

When it comes to food, the star is the hamantaschen, a triangle pastry shaped like Haman’s hat. Fill them with poppy seed, apricot jam, chocolate, or peanut butter—whatever you like. Pair them with a glass of wine or grape juice, and you have a classic Purim feast. Don’t forget the kreplach soup and fried treats like latkes or poppy‑seed fritters for extra variety.

Party Safely and Share the Joy

Purim parties, called seudot, are lively gatherings with music, dancing, and often a bit of drinking. If you host, set up a space where guests can mingle, play games, and enjoy the food. Keep the vibe light—no need for fancy decorations, just a few streamers and a playlist of upbeat songs.

For those who prefer a low‑key celebration, a virtual meetup works too. Share photos of your costumes, exchange mishloach manot via video call, and read the Megillah together using an online stream. The holiday’s spirit is about community, no matter the format.

By focusing on these core traditions—reading, giving, dressing, eating, and partying—you’ll experience Purim fully without feeling overwhelmed. Grab a gragger, pack a tasty basket, and enjoy the day. Happy Purim!